**Sensitive subject matter - Not suitable for children**
"Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time,
Thou shalt not commit adultery: But I say unto you,
That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath
committed adultery with her already in his heart." ~ Matthew 5:27-28
Just keep scrolling through that news feed or hear those ladies talking whilst waiting in line somewhere, and you'll soon see or hear comments that are improper and unsettling. Oh now don't get all offended...you know what I mean. Ladies who are reading these materials will describe how they'll be dreaming of that certain fictional character as they sleep that evening...etc! The comments I have read/heard have been much more "graphic" than that...but I hope you get the picture.
Ladies, the ONLY person you are supposed to have feelings
like that about, is your HUSBAND!
"It's not real, I know it's fictional! I would never even think of cheating on my husband"...If you are a lady who is thinking similar to that in response to this post, consider this:
We women are largely stimulated by our emotions; men with their eyes. Pornography to men, is what erotic/romantic fiction is to women. It all leads to improper thoughts about someone who is not your spouse. Would you be happy if the roles were reversed, and your husband were looking at pornography or reading erotic fiction? I doubt it! Consider the Bible verse above; Jesus said even looking after a woman in lust was committing adultery in the heart...how much the same then, when lusting with our minds? We are ALL accountable before God...and He sees our hearts and our unspoken thoughts.
Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled:
but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
~ Hebrews 13:4
I firmly believe that reading materials such as these is a sin, disrespectful to husbands, and would also be extremely detrimental to your marriage and family. No loving wife should be filling her heart and mind with adulterous thoughts.
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
For the husband is the head of the wife,even as Christ
is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ,
so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.
~ Ephesians 5:22-24